Wife vs best friend battle

The ManicaPost

Barbara Vhengedza From My Heart
Dear Tete
My best friend and his wife are poking their noses into my family business too much. We have always been very close friends keeping no secrets till I married my wife who prefers to keep private issues. My wife is always crying after hearing the numerous things my best friend’s wife tells people about our personal issues. I like my friend and I would like to keep our friendship but his wife is ruining everything.

Tete Responds:

When one gets married, one must embrace change too. Your life now includes your wife in it and therefore your actions must be a reflection of the new union. Your friend must know where to draw the line when it comes to your marriage, but he can only know if you set the boundaries. Please do not accuse your friend’s wife of being a rumour monger even if it is true!  Keeping your affairs private and confidential will not break your friendship, if anything it will be stronger. No stories, no gossip equals happy wives and happy lives