The ManicaPost
For three months, I cannot get an erection. Ever since I dumped my small house, my life has become a living hell.
I met her at a local bar and despite the numerous warnings I got from people I continued to see this lady of the night. After a few months we began having unprotected sex and in no time she claimed to be pregnant. As a married man I could not marry her as she wanted, but I accepted responsibility for the pregnancy. A few weeks into the pregnancy she claimed to have had a miscarriage and I discovered that this was my chance to run away from this union. I then told her it was over, but she went berserk. I had to remind her that she was a lady of the night and she warned me that I would see her wrath. Since that day, my machine has lost agility. Please help!
Tete Barbara Responds:
Three months! I am curious to know how you have been evading your wife at home or what explanation you have been giving her for the situation you are currently facing. I hope you were not blaming her for your predicament or worse still just ignoring her and making her feel unattractive. However, you cheated with another woman and it resulted in a pregnancy which literally means unprotected sex.
Please visit your doctor for an HIV test, not just for yourself, but also to protect your wife at home. While you are at the doctor’s office, mention your small problem and find out what the doctor advises. Sometimes failure to get an erection can be a psychological problem emanating from a devastating experience. It could also be a sign of an underlying health complication. If you still continue to experience this challenge, then maybe you may need to find someone to unlock the key. Remember to speak to your wife about your challenge so that she understands that you are not withholding conjugal rights from her, but that you are actually facing a health issue. Be wise in future.
All the best.
