The ManicaPost
Barbara Vhengedza From My Heart
FROM My Heart is a platform created for you to share your issues and get practical assistance. Together we can create brighter lives and happier people, transforming mindsets one day at a time. Send your heart to heart message to Tete Barbara and read her responses.
Dear Tete
I have been married for over two years without any issues. Late last year I had a baby girl and soon afterwards, I discovered that my husband was having an affair with a younger girl who was pregnant. I confronted my man about what I had heard, but he simply dismissed it as vicious rumours that were aimed at destroying our marriage. Four days ago he came to me and told me that he wanted to take a second wife. I am broken. I never dreamt of becoming a wife in a polygamous setup.
Tete Responds:
You are in charge of your life and therefore you should be in control of the situation. Yes, you may be in shock, but you must shape up and get back on the horse. Your husband has come clean on his position and now the ball is in your court. Talk to your husband and find out what this whole set up means. If you do not agree with the idea, you are old enough to decide. Also, if you are legally married, find out about what you can do to protect yourself in the union. You know what you want and what you are prepared to take.
All the Best!
