The ManicaPost
From My Heart with Barbara Vhengedza
I was dating a certain married woman from my brother’s workplace for a little over six months. We had an understanding that worked for us and it was good. She took care of my financial needs and I took care of her physical needs. One day I decided to double date with my married older brother and his side chick. I recently discovered that my brother has snatched my cougar and dumped his girl. I feel like telling his wife but I do not hate him that much. I guess the next best thing is telling the cougar’s husband. Help me.
TETE RESPONDS
Your brother, your cougar and you all need help. Why would you be dating a married woman in the first place and expect her to be faithful to you? She is already cheating on her husband! You are clearly hurt perhaps because your financial aid has been cut off or because your brother has played you. Whatever the case, breaking up relationships will not give you the satisfaction you need. You need to help yourself. Deal with the problem that makes you have such relationships. Find a counsellor and speak to your brother. Forgive, change and move on.
