The ManicaPost
Barbara Vhengedza From My Heart
Dear Tete
I am a 32-year-old married woman fighting for respect where I know it is undeserved. Eleven years ago, I fell pregnant out of wedlock and as my friends and I had become accustomed to, I went on to terminate the pregnancy.We frequented an old woman’s place in one of the high-density suburbs and got our regular concussion which sorted the issue. Little did I know that trouble was at hand when the pain went on longer than usual. I was in excruciating pain for days and eventually had my womb removed. My friends are happily married with children and I have none. My husband is yet to find out, but I hope it never come to that.
Tete Responds:
It is sad that you have gone through this painful experience and have to continue carrying the burden on your own. It is not necessary especially when you have a partner. Open up to your husband about your situation. Remember it involves him whether you like it or not. What has happened has happened, but let this be a warning to others who want to go down the same avenue. Find a good professional counsellor to help you through this period.
Good Luck!
