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Dear Tete Barbara —
There is nothing like being betrayed by someone you trusted with every area of your life. My best friend stabbed me in the heart when she stole my man. We were best friends who had no secrets hidden from each other.
She used information I told her to lure my man into her bed. Now that he has paid Loyola for her, I have realised how serious this relationship is. How can she snatch what was mine? I dated him for four years and in just eight months she gets him to pay her bride price. I will deal with her and make sure that he leaves her. I also know her secrets and I can also use them. What should I do, I am hurt inside?
Tete Responds
Relationships end everyday but guess what, new ones are born every second. Hold on, your special someone is on his way just be ready to receive him and all the beautiful things you will have to share.
Do not waste time on useless tasks that will take up energy you need to get ahead. Do not be weighed down by bitterness. Anyone who did not stick around clearly does not deserve to be around. It hurts to be betrayed but there is a beautiful life ahead of you all you have to do is reach out.
Focus on improving yourself and finding the things that make you happy. Your friend may have done a bad thing but forgive her and your ex for hurting you.
You do not have to be friends again but you must learn to forgive them and forget the anger, hurt and embarrassment it may have caused you.
Your dreams will come true just believe. Find someone to talk to about your feelings and find peace. There is no need for revenge. If you have so much energy rather channel it into something more positive.
Forgive and Move on.
Act now!
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