Having sex with my boyfriend’s daddy

17 May, 2019 - 00:05 0 Views

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I feel guilty, but it’s the best sex I’ve ever had
I am 20 and my boyfriend is 21. We are saving up for a place of our own while we still both live at home. The downside is we get little opportunity to be intimate.

We thought we were alone at his house a couple of months ago and decided to have sex in his bedroom.

We were right in the middle of the best part when his daddy suddenly walked in. It gave us the fright of our lives.

I tried to pull the covers over me but I saw the look on his father’s face. It completely ruined the moment for us.

My boyfriend had to leave for work an hour later but I stayed and took a shower.

The house was quiet and I thought his daddy must have gone out, but when I went downstairs he was waiting in the kitchen.

He’s 45 and his wife left him for another guy when my boyfriend was a teenager.

He walked up to me, put his arms around me and started kissing me.

He told me he had never felt so horny as he did at seeing me in bed, that I had the most beautiful body he’d seen.

I said I thought he would be angry. He said not at all, but he wanted some of the action, too.

He is a good-looking, charming and sophisticated man. He offered me a glass of wine and I started to relax.

He kissed me again and I didn’t resist. We ended up having sex.

It was the most passionate I have ever known. He is so experienced and knows exactly what buttons to press.

We have had sex several times since.

I love my boyfriend but I cannot deny the way his daddy makes me feel. I feel so guilty and know this can’t go on.

DEIDRE SAYS: Your boyfriend’s daddy may be an amazing lover after all he’s had years more practice, but he’s a lousy father.

Muscling in on his son’s girlfriend is totally selfish.

He may have been turned-on by the sight of you but it doesn’t justify him acting on his urges.

You are flattering his ego, turning back the years and making his fantasy real, but this situation is all going to end in tears if you let it carry on.

You are sitting on a time-bomb and could be caught out just as you and your boyfriend were. And then what happens?

Trust will be broken all round and may take a very long time to recover from, if at all.

It would be unfair, but if that happens the family may well close ranks and point the blame at you.

If you love your boyfriend as you say you do, then be the adult here and step away from his daddy while you still can.

JOHN asks: Why am I still single? I am 31 years old and I have been single most of my life I’ve had two three month relationships and countless dates but I can never seem to keep a girl interested.

I have a nice car, my own house and I’m an area manager for a supermarket so I’m on decent money and I am degree educated.

I am currently working on losing my weight and getting the body I want — my social life isn’t that great because I’ve been focused on work. I am 5,9 so okish height. I can keep conversation going and dress well, so I just don’t get why am still single.

Dear John; It’s a quandary but appears that you would tick lots of boxes from willing and eager women out on the dating scene.

Dating isn’t just about being eligible physically and materially, we also need to check on a few “E” areas:

Expectations — are you being unrealistic when it comes to your wish list?

Emotional availability — are you asking questions and listening to their responses and ready to engage at an emotional level?

Empathy — are you connecting and finding out what you have in common? People like people like them.  We love to hang out with people that make us feel understood.

Eroticism — Are you timing your moves well? Not too fast and not too slow — it probably sounds like a minefield, but by building rapport with women and practicing the power of your intuition you will soon easily sense their rhythm and flow.

You don’t mention what happened with the past two girlfriends. It is difficult to advise you without more information, but why not check out a few sessions with a good dating coach? Persia Lawson comes highly recommended and has even written a book about the subject.

In the meantime make a list of the girls you’ve dated, every single one of them.  Put their names on the left hand side of the page.

Now in the next column tick if you were interested in them.

In the next column, write why the connection failed. Your instinct. What was missing? What was too much?

By looking for patterns you could uncover a simple unconscious behaviour or strategy that’s been set up to protect you. — Online.

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